{"id":2300,"date":"2021-02-14T06:40:45","date_gmt":"2021-02-14T13:40:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.telyas.com\/wordpress\/?p=2300"},"modified":"2021-02-14T06:40:45","modified_gmt":"2021-02-14T13:40:45","slug":"sensitive-questions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.telyas.com\/wordpress\/2021\/02\/14\/sensitive-questions\/","title":{"rendered":"Sensitive questions"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Highly recommend <a href=\"https:\/\/freakonomics.com\/podcast\/sensitive-questions\/\">Freakonomics podcast on sensitive questions <\/a>.  As a podcast, it is not that great as it mostly repeats, explains (in a great way) a research done by one team and also available on <a href=\"https:\/\/hbr.org\/2020\/11\/the-case-for-asking-sensitive-questions\">HBR<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But I feel it is important because it tells us that:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>We overestimate the offence  taken by the person asked <\/li><li>Are missing out by not asking sensitive, extremely personal questions <\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the researchers, Einav Hart, is an Israeli, and when asked about the differences between the Israeli and American cultures, she could not point to significant differences. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My experience in Japan was definitely different, but I now have doubts about my takes and my behavior. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In Israel, i had many experiences in which a waitress at the Cafe started chatting with me, which usually resulted in personal questions. Where do you live, what do you do and sometimes more than that. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In my experiences in Japan, I was unsure what I can and cannot ask, i had cases I received frowned faces or questions being ignored when I asked questions which were &#8220;a bit&#8221; personal&#8230; so I stopped.  Meeting and chatting with people I do not know has resulted in me waiting for them to take the lead.  If they ask personal questions, I will respond and open up. And if not, nothing will happen.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Maybe it is a good way not to hurt, but it is definitely missing out on interactions and communications.  How may friends or life lessons did I miss out because I did not ask more, interact more, engage more ? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I now just have to wait for Covid-19 to go away before testing it. Definitely now is not a good time to talk with strangers. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Highly recommend Freakonomics podcast on sensitive questions . As a podcast, it is not that great as it mostly repeats, explains (in a great way) a research done by one team and also available on HBR. But I feel it is important because it tells us that: We overestimate the offence taken by the person &hellip; <\/p>\n<p class=\"link-more\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.telyas.com\/wordpress\/2021\/02\/14\/sensitive-questions\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Sensitive questions&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2300","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.telyas.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2300","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.telyas.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.telyas.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.telyas.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.telyas.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2300"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.telyas.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2300\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2301,"href":"https:\/\/www.telyas.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2300\/revisions\/2301"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.telyas.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2300"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.telyas.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2300"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.telyas.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2300"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}